Today’s post was written by guest blogger Patrick O’Connor. Patrick is the director of college counseling at Roeper School in Birmingham, Michigan, and author of ‘College is Yours in 600 Words or Less’. You can follow Patrick’s weekly column and subscribe to it at collegeisyours.com.
Now that you’ve solved the “going to college” puzzle, you have lots of free time on your hands. To make sure you are college ready, here are some recommendations on how to spend some of your summertime. Consider these as practice on how to expand your world—that’s the whole idea behind college, so give these a spin, and you’ll hit the campus more flexible that Gumby after a yoga class:
Movie You Must See Before You Go To College
The Shawshank Redemption had the misfortune of being released the same year as Forrest Gump, so it was widely ignored for several years. Now it’s on TNT every month, and rightfully so. A story about redemption, second chances, mistakes, forgiveness and negotiating with the world, this isn’t an easy movie to watch, but it tells a great deal about hope, determination, and always knowing what’s right. It will give you the skills to handle Intro to Econ, eccentric roommates, and more, with ease.
Movie Clip You Must See Before You Go to College
I won’t make you sit through the entire film, but the first scene in The Sound of Music is worth the five minutes and 46 seconds it will occupy in your life. A good reminder that less is almost always more, all you see are the mountains of Austria, and all you hear is the remarkable voice of a young Julie Andrews that will make you wonder why she can sing more effortlessly than you can walk.
Success in college demands an ability to stop and appreciate that which is simple and beautiful. Watching this clip will also help you understand why your father’s adolescence was complicated by having an intense crush on a nun. (And as long as the DVD is in the machine, peek at the puppet scene about a third of the way through.)
Song You Must Listen to Before You Go To College
The second movement of Mozart’s Concerto for Flute and Harp is the finest piece he ever wrote, and all of its potential was realized when it was performed by Jean Pierre Rampal and Lily Laskine. Rampal started life as a pre-med major, but his heart had other designs, and he went on to become the premiere flutist of his time, and all time. This performance reminds you that anyone who believes all works of Mozart are the same has no idea what it means to truly listen to music or to people, and that God made the flute to be played by the French. This should be on iTunes—if it isn’t, cancel your subscription. (Their album of Japanese Melodies is mighty good as well.)
Song Clip You Must Watch Before You Go To College
It took less than two minutes for Ella Fitzgerald and the Manhattan Transfer to find their place in Grammy history in 1983 with a rendition of “How High the Moon” that sounds like they practiced for years, but looks like they met each other behind stage and decided to see what happens. Your goal in college is to work this hard to make everything look this easy—and if you leave college without an appreciation for good jazz, your parents have wasted their money.
Phrase You Must Add to Your Vocabulary
“Ma’am.” Like high schools, colleges are run by secretaries—veteran, organized, unionized secretaries who have a way of doing things that is older than Stonehenge. This level of organization almost always works to your advantage, except at peak times during the year when every student needs help, and their system of order is on the brink of collapse. That’s where you come in.
You: “I need to process this drop and add slip.”
Secretary, peering over her half glasses: “Have you seen your adviser?”
You: “Yes ma’am.”
At this point, you will see her shoulders drop, her pen write faster, and a small smile cross her face. You have made her day, and she will never, ever, forget you.
This is good. Trust me.
Phrase You Must Delete from Your Vocabulary
“No problem.” There will probably be a point where one of these secretaries may actually thank you for doing something. The only way you can get off their good side is to respond with anything but “You’re Welcome.” Practice now.
Book You Must Read Before You Go To College
Realizing I run the risk of raising the ire of every AP English and History teacher, I will none the less offer How the Irish Saved Civilization by Thomas Cahill. Neither fiction nor a scholarly work, it’s more like your Irish neighbor telling you the enriched but true story of the vital role Irish monks held in restoring education to Europe during the time of St. Patrick. You won’t read anything this easy or biased in college, but its story of how modest people can engage in diligent efforts that change history will, I hope, stay with you forever.